Pork butt roast is bone in. Same with pork shoulder roast. We cut off around the bone pieces to give out and then give the bone with meat on to one ofthe girls as her portion, usually Bailey since she is the biggest and can crunch the bone the best...not sure if one of your kids could handle the bone since they aren't as big. You could still give the bone meat on to one of them and keep an eye on them.
The grocery store where I get my butt roasts cut them in half for me. Each dog gets a half for a meal. I cut a little meat off each half for the cats. Bone hasn't been a problem here. It gets eaten too. :smile: